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Close Siblings

22/02/2015 21:25

Having 2 small children that are so close in age can be really difficult at times. They both demand so much of your attention and fight for it at the same time as the other. They both still need so much and it's impossible to give it to them both at the same time - all of the time. It's exhausting even trying to. We knew it would be difficult, but the challenge of having them so close together has definitely been more of an up hill battle than we perhaps anticipated. We had them close together for a reason though... we wanted them to grow together and hopefully have a close relationship. 

I get the feeling that we're not far away from something really special. I get the feeling that we're not far away from the dynamics changing quite dramatically. They're growing so fast. Take a look at these photos...

Sister fighting for brothers attentionBrother and Sistser Playing Games

Brother Sister CuddlingBrother Feeding Sister Bottle

I get the feeling that they might just be fighting for eachothers attention a little bit more, and our attention a little bit less in the not so distant future. And that? Well that's what we were hoping for when we planned to have Alice so soon after Clayton had graced us with his presence. I'm hoping that photos like these are just a small window into what the future is going to hold for our little duo.

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Topic: Close Siblings

Date: 03/03/2015

By: Rachel

Subject: Awww

They do look exceptionally cute bless them x

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Date: 02/03/2015

By: Cherished By Me

Subject: cherishedbyme.com

My older two sons have three years between them but they were so close and had the same interests when they were little, it was really lovely. I'm sure your two are going to have so much fun together.

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Date: 02/03/2015

By: Agata P.

Subject: ooowww

they look so beautiful together... it is nice to see them being so close

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Date: 02/03/2015

By: Jane @ northernmum

Subject: twins

As the mother to twins I can only say how lovely it is to have them close in age!

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Date: 02/03/2015

By: lisa

Subject: sibling love

i know how you feel , it can be tough but coming from mum off 7 whos little ones are all within a year of each other i promise it gets easier as they grow lol , seeing them together playing like this nicely though makes me smile x

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Date: 02/03/2015

By: Mummy of Two

Subject: www.mummyoftwo.com

Do you know what I don't think there is an ideal age gap. We have a 4 year gap between our first two and that brought with it lots of challenges. They do get on really well now but our eldest (now 6 1/2) still fights for attention constantly. Will be interesting to see what happens when number 3 comes along in a few weeks!

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Date: 02/03/2015

By: Jen

Subject: Siblings

There is 14 months between my two and there have been challenges along the way, but I wouldn't have it any other way

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Date: 02/03/2015

By: Louisa

Subject: cute!

They are so cute together. I have 12 months between my middle 2 and they are very close but they do fight like cat and dog now they are older!

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Date: 02/03/2015

By: Sarah Bailey

Subject: very sweet

What some lovely photos and so nice to see them helping each other and enjoying being in each others company. x

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Date: 02/03/2015

By: Erica Price

Subject: Friends

Hopefully, it won't take too much longer before you have that special relationship. My sister had hers 18 months apart and in less than a couple of years they were really good playmates (plus the work load started dropping off).

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