Why I Loved BritMums Live as a First Timer Dad

25/06/2015 00:50

This past weekend, I found myself treading water in an ocean full of creative, talented and admired members of the British blogging community. I attended, BritMums Live - the most prestigious event of the year for parenting and lifestyle bloggers and boy was I glad that I did. For those of you that don't know what BritMums is all about; well it's the UK's biggest, two-day social media conference and blogger event, where lifestyle bloggers and social influencers gather to meet and socialise, network with brands, improve their skills, and fire their creativity. I travelled to London and found myself sitting in on talks, classes, award ceremonies and creative workshops - a real bloggers heaven. But in actual fact, none of those things are the reason that I came away feeling positive about the weekend.

Dad Blogger CrewDad Bloggers Pizza Express

Thanks to Pizza Express for feeding us Dads. Featured above (in no particular order); Dave from TheDadventurer, Al from TheDadNetwork, John from DadYouGeek, Tony from Papa Tont, Darren from OneDad3Girls, John from DadBlogUk and behind the camera Tim from SlouchingTowardsThatcham.

 

Since becoming a parent 2 years ago, I've found myself a little lost from time to time. My blog is my outlet when I need one, and it serves a purpose but I often crave a bigger stage to sound off from. I'm 29 years old and am still the only one of my friends to embark on the parenthood journey. I live away from my family, and even further from my wifes family. I have no other parents that I can call friends in a similar position to me, fighting the same battles as me or even on the same wavelength as me. Noone who can relate to the every day struggles of being a working parent to 2 small children. The internet though, is a wonderful thing and every year with new apps being created (Periscope is a world away from the 140 characters of Twitter) the world gets smaller. Through blogging, I've connected with so many people who understand me, my life and can relate without having to pretend or force the issue. BritMums Live gave me the chance to connect with some of those people, and meet a plethora of others to add to the list. BritMums Live allowed me to socialise with other Dads and talk mens issues, parenting and blogging. BritMums Live welcomed me, as a first timer with open arms and made me feel as though I belonged to something much greater than my own corner of the internet - it showed me that the much talked about blogging community does exist and they're more than happy to accept new members. BritMums Live made me feel like a real person again, even if just for the weekend and for that I'm grateful.

Mummy Blogger fondles Dad Bloggers beard

The amazing Vicky from HonestMum with her Dad groupies and the beautiful Alice from LifeAsAlice gets to grips with my beard.

 

I met far too many wonderful, creative, friendly and inspiring people in my 2 days to even attempt to compile a list and risk offending anyone I may miss. I didn't meet one bad egg, or witness any negativity first hand. Admittedly Dads were in a minority compared to the female attendance but forget gender when thinking about BritMums Live. Everyone there can relate to the next with a common interest and for that weekend, we're not Mums, Dads, male, female or even parents... we're bloggers. We're all people with the ability to use our creative minds to influence others and we're all there to interact with people just like ourselves. My top tip for attending BritMums Live is to let your hair down, relax and embrace the atmosphere. I was so nervous about attending, but I encourage anyone who is in two mind about going to do so - you really won't regret it! If you need convincing otherwise, then come and find me... because I will most definitely be there again next year!

Dad Creek and Ginger Warrior Selfie

My travelling companion kept my nerves at bay - the bundle of energy that is Ceri, TheGingerWarrior.

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Topic: Why I Loved BritMums Live as a First Timer Dad

Date: 02/07/2015

By: martyn

Subject: BML

I'm a little gutted that with all the photos and networking taht I didn't get any selfie with half of the lively people like yourself. Must try harder. Great post. Thanks for linking up with us on the #bigfatlinky hope to see you there this week

Date: 02/07/2015

By: Morgan Prince

Subject: www.morganprince.com

Sounds like you have a fabulous time. I left it too late to go this year (down to no confidence), but have already decided I'll be attending next year. You make it sound great!

Date: 30/06/2015

By: Kerry / Ohsoamelia

Subject: BML

Glad you enjoyed it, sounds like you had a lot of fun. I saw you a couple of times. Hopefully we can speak next year :)

Date: 01/07/2015

By: Ryan Costello

Subject: Re: BML

Most people 'saw' me... apparently I stand out like a sore thumb with a hairier face than most. Definitely speak next year.

Date: 30/06/2015

By: Kara

Subject: Britmums

I am so gutted I missed it this year but no birthdays to get in the way next year!

Date: 30/06/2015

By: Erica Price

Subject: Comment

Good to see more dads going along. Didn't go this year although I'd been the previous 3 years.

Date: 29/06/2015

By: Ness

Subject: BritMums

I'm glad you liked it. Someone told me not to go as they didn't think there would be anybody I could connect with as I don't drink, smoke or do fashion and I like things such sports and street furniture.

Date: 01/07/2015

By: Ryan Costello

Subject: Re: BritMums

That's craziness... definitely go and find out for yourself. Based on my experience, you won't find it like that at all.

Date: 29/06/2015

By: Sonia

Subject: http://thismummyloves.com

Great to see a group of Dads enjoying themselves at Britmums. Everytime I've been I've only spotted 1 or 2 Dads :)

Date: 29/06/2015

By: Michelle

Subject: The Purple Pumpkin Blog

It's always lovely to read about great 1st time experiences at BML - I had my husband with me, and he was glad to see other blokes there! Hope to see you for a bit long next year - we can talk Disney!!

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